Ep 43: Building Resilience in Loneliness
Loneliness is one of the most painful struggles we face—and it’s one I know all too well. In this heartfelt episode, I open up about my own experience with loneliness after divorce, moving, and starting over. From Friday nights listening to neighbors laughing while I sat alone, to realizing just how deeply our brains are wired for connection, I share both the raw reality and the hope I’m holding onto.
Together we’ll explore:
A clear definition of loneliness (from the Global Initiative on Loneliness and Connection)
What neuroscience tells us about how loneliness impacts our brains and bodies
Biblical examples of loneliness—from Elijah under the broom tree to David in the caves, and even Jesus in Gethsemane
Why loneliness has become a modern epidemic in our culture
The lies loneliness tells us—and how to reframe them with truth
Practical, faith-based strategies to build resilience in lonely seasons: micro-connections, anchor habits, acts of service, prayer, worship, and reframing solitude as growth
This conversation is for anyone who feels unseen, unwanted, or forgotten in their loneliness. You’ll leave with neuroscience insights, biblical encouragement, and practical ways to find strength even when the silence feels overwhelming.
Scripture References
1 Kings 19:3–5 (Elijah’s loneliness)
Psalm 13 (David’s cry of abandonment)
Psalm 34:18 (“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted…”)
Isaiah 53:3 (Jesus as “a man of suffering, acquainted with grief”)
Resources Mentioned
Lam et al., 2021: Neuropharmacology study on loneliness and well-being
Local groups and events: Meetup, Eventbrite, church communities
If this episode encouraged you, would you share it with someone who might also be struggling in this season? One small act—a text, a smile, a hello—can ripple into healing for someone else.
Remember: Loneliness is not a weakness. It’s a signal. And even in the deepest valleys, you are never abandoned.
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