Ep: 18: Wearing Your Heart On Your Sleeve: The Blessing and the Battle
Summary:
In this episode of Diamonds in Dumpster Fires, Melie gets real about what it means to wear your heart on your sleeve—and why that’s not a weakness, it’s a superpower. From Shakespeare to C.S. Lewis to the Psalms of David, she unpacks the beauty (and the occasional chaos) of being emotionally open. You’ll hear how vulnerability connects us, how Jesus Himself modeled emotional expression, and why your sensitivity is not something to apologize for. With a mix of faith, humor, and practical wisdom, this episode is your reminder that being tender doesn’t mean being weak—it means you’re alive, awake, and brave enough to feel it all.
Big Takeaways:
Wearing your heart on your sleeve = emotional honesty, not emotional chaos.
Fun fact: the phrase goes all the way back to Shakespeare’s Othello.
Letting people in emotionally creates deeper, more meaningful connections.
As C.S. Lewis said: “To love is to be vulnerable.”
Emotional sensitivity is wired into your brain—and it’s part of your strength.
Jesus and David both expressed their emotions fully and faithfully.
Vulnerability is powerful—but it needs boundaries to be sustainable.
Self-awareness is key: know what you're feeling, why you're feeling it, and how to navigate it.
Sensitivity is a gift. Handle it with care—but don’t hide it.
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